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Why Are Employees Ghosting Your Employee Wellbeing Programs?

Only 10-20% of employees typically engage in work wellbeing programs which wastes millions in resources and effort? This article explains why participation rates are so low and what you can do about it.
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Key points

  • Typical employee wellbeing programs have participation rates as low as 10-20%, translating to wasted resources and minimal return on investment for companies.
  • Employees disengage when interventions lack relevance, leadership authenticity, or fail to address deeper systemic workplace issues.
  • Companies can boost genuine participation by deeply listening to employees’ real struggles through meaningful dialogue and targeted research methods.
  • Authentic, visible leadership commitment to employee wellbeing fosters trust, boosts participation, and drives lasting organizational change.
  • Meaningful incentives and personalized interventions tailored to employees’ unique needs dramatically improve engagement and long-term outcomes.

Last year I attended a “Burnout Prevention” workshop that was presented by a well-established consulting group in the employee wellbeing space, and I left the session wondering what I really got out of the last 3 hours?

Picture this: a brightly lit corporate conference room filled with a bunch of people with super tired faces. A well-meaning consultant is enthusiastically clicking through 288 slides filled with bullet points, long texts and a lot of motivational clichés. Next to me, a young lawyer was sitting and discreetly checking his emails under the table. Across the room, an executive from a large re-insurance agency is yawning as he taps away on his laptop. When the session finally ends, the consultant asks if we have any questions… The room got so quite, we could hear the gentle rain tap against the window as we all seemed to share the same sentiment… “Can we please just go home?!” As we leave finally got to leave and shuffle out the brightly lit conference room, and I realised we really didn’t learn anything and despite a massive need, no one got anything out of the session.

So why did this earnest effort fail so spectacularly? Is this just a new trend, given our “tiktok” level attention span, or is there something deeper? To be honest, this isn’t a new trend. I’ve spent years sitting in sessions exactly like this (and yes, even the ones I used to PRESENT!) and here’s what I’ve discovered:

Most employee wellbeing intervention programs fail because they completely miss the mark. They’re just generic prescriptions to complex human problems, designed by well-intentioned individuals who, unfortunately, haven’t asked employees what they truly need.

Its therefore not surprising that employees ghost these programs! It’s really not because they’re stubborn or they don’t want to get value from them, but rather because these initiatives simply don’t resonate with their real lives, struggles and needs.


The Brutal Reality Behind Your Low Participation Rates

Let’s be honest with ourselves…. Despite a massive self-reported need by employees for wellbeing interventions (around 92% According to the APA’s annual Work in America Survey), active participation rates during  employee wellbeing programs typically hover around 10-20%. That means, at best, two out of ten employees engage during interventions and even fewer experience any lasting change in their mental health or wellbeing.  People are incredibly perceptive, and can easily detect superficial, generic, band-aid like solutions and token efforts. If a employee wellbeing initiative feels like yet another corporate checkbox, employees will automatically disengage… quietly but decisively.

Think about it: Would you get any value from a “improving communications” training session, if the real issues you are facing is with the relationships with your manager or colleagues? Or would you be enthusiastic to go to corporate sponsored early morning yoga sessions to help you be more mindful… if you are so overwhelmed with work that you can barely keep your head above water?


Three Hidden Truths Your Employees Wish You Knew

So, your employees aren’t just tuning out your well-being programs, they’re sending you a very clear message. And understanding the hidden truths in these messages is your first step toward creating initiatives they’ll genuinely embrace. Here are the three things your employees wish they could tell you:

Relevance Drives Engagement.

Employees crave tailored solutions to their actual real world lived experiences and problems. They will get no value from, generic, companywide employee wellbeing initiatives and wellness platitudes… because they wont see the value in them! If you’re offering yoga when they need stress management tools, you’re really missing the mark.

Authenticity Trumps EVERYTHING.

Employees have a radar for authenticity. They will quickly disengage from initiatives they sense are just there for the show. When leadership spots an issue and wants to genuinely make a change to help improve work-life for everyone, your will naturally see participation/engagement rates AND ROI increase.

Systemic Changes Will ALWAYS Beats Any Quick Fix.

Offering free access to mindfulness apps to individuals working in a toxic environment is like trying to prescribe essential oils for a cancer diagnosis… It really won’t help and, in fact, might even make the problem worse. You have to identify the root cause of the problem, and address that directly, rather than trying to fix the outcomes of the problem within effective solutions. These problems are usually systemic, and deeply engraned in the DNA of the organization. Finding and fixing these will be a lot more effective than trying to improve employees “coping”


So, How Do We Fix This?

Understanding what the actual problem is crucial, but it’s just the first step. Here are some strategies that are both academically proven, and practically relevant to improve engagement in employee wellbeing initiatives:

Listen Deeply, Act Wisely

Begin by genuinely listening to the problems your people are experiencing. Im not talking about the traditional checkbox like survey that HR sends around once a year. I mean engage in deep, meaningful dialogue with your internal stakeholders to really understand what’s bothering them and what they need. Conduct deep-dive interviews and use something like a Participatory Action Research Approach to help create spaces where employees feel safe to express their truths openly. This will become your blueprint for developing real solutions to their problems, that have lasting effects.

Authentic Leadership Transforms Culture

Imagine your CEO openly discussing mental health, how important it is to take genuine breaks, and one who models vulnerability as a strength. I think employees mirror their leadership’s behaviours and when senior leaders really and authentically prioritize employee wellbeing, their employees are sure to follow.

Personalize, Don’t Generalize but Ensure Readiness for Change

Avoid the one-size-fits-all approach to your interventions. People crave personalization. They want specific solutions to their problems GIVEN the constraints they have on a personal and institutional level. We have to understand each individual person’s own challenges and help them create tailored developmental interventions that’s highly structured around their personalities, strengths, work-preferences, work styles, needs and growth goals. But remember, change is challenging for everyone and even with a hyper personalised plan, you need to support your by offering small incremental, manageable changes. Consider motivational interviewing or coaching to help employees gradually embrace wellbeing practices.

Inspire with Authentic Stories

Stories aren’t just ways through which we communicate information. They are really powerful ways to share lived experiences that are deeply transformative. Move beyond corporate fluff and start sharing genuine, deeply personal narratives of your work related challenges and how these have been overcome. Employees resonate with the real journeys, struggles, and breakthroughs of colleagues who’ve experienced genuine transformation.

Smart Incentives Build Lasting Habits

Yes, incentives do matter.. especially when implementing more systemic types of interventions.. but choose wisely. Creative rewards like extra vacation days, wellness stipends, or heartfelt recognition for work will really improve initial adoption and engagement. The trick is to ensure that these incentives feel like thoughtful gifts, not transactional exchanges which feel like obligations.


The Ripple Effect of Wellbeing

Why does this really matter? When employee wellbeing programs are done right, they’re no longer seen as just corporate initiatives… They start to become powerful movements within the organizations that helps to completely reshape the very fabric of the organization’s workplace culture.  As these wellness behaviors and values organically spread across an organization, they become embedded in everyday routines, norms, and conversations. Over time, what began as a simple initiative evolves into a resilient cultural shift, significantly reducing burnout, enhancing productivity, and ultimately transforming the health of the entire organizational ecosystem.

Research has shown that effective, genuine employee wellbeing interventions that are advocated by senior leadership has a “six degrees of separation effect”.  In other words, the positive effects of these interventions can have a cascaded outward effect that can positively influence up to 6 different colleagues beyond their immediate circles.


Conclusion

So next time you find yourself in a brightly lit conference room staring at slide 287 of 288, remember this moment… real change happens when we listen deeply, act authentically, and prioritize genuine human needs over generic prescriptions. Employee wellbeing isn’t about ticking boxes; it’s about meaningful connection and thoughtful action. It’s time we stopped shuffling quietly out the door and started genuinely engaging with what truly matters.

About Llewellyn

Llewellyn E. van Zyl

An award winning psychologist and data-scientist that’s charting new frontiers in the science of wellbeing.

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